A little beautiful 10 month old baby went missing on October 4th, 2011. The Internet buzz is that mom is guilty. Mom was drinking. Dad was supposed to be home at 10:30, but didn't get home until 4am, at which point, he came home, found baby missing, woke mom up, then everyone panicked, then parents called the police.
People want to start vigilante groups. She's just a bad mom for drinking on the front porch with a neighbor. She should be shot, hung, and gutted, according to Internet bloggers. Maybe that's true, but we don't know anything. We don't know why, but this family is not talking to law enforcement. Does it mean they are guilty? Does it mean anything yet? We don't know, but I surely hope no one throws stones until this case is solved!
So, being the nosy mom of a 10 month old myself, I find myself unhealthily engaged in this situation. I don't know if the parents are guilty. I do know I might be overly optimistic. After all, a small, underfed voice of mine still tells me that Casey Anthony didn't kill Caylee, that Casey was an unattached mom who was involved in the drug scene and was just as surprised as the rest of us that Caylee died.
I have hope. I'm a mom, but what happend on an Internet discussion on Facebook turned my gut even more than the thought that moms kill babies. Well, almost as much. I told a woman that we don't know all the facts about Deborah Bradley, little baby Lisa's mom. I said we don't know for sure that she was involved, and that even though she may be suspicious, we shouldn't go all Salem witch-trial on someone who seems kinky, when she may simply be missing her little baby. Stranger things have happened.
What did she tell me? She told me to go crawl up Deborah Bradley's ass. AND, then she said she was leaving the page because she didn't want to have to get into an argument.
So, is this what Americans have become? We've become so involved in our selves that we see no righteousness in any opposing statements? I mean, what is it to debate? Can we do that any more? Can we just offer differing opinions to further the search for truth?
I know what some of you might think. The going trend in American thought has me believing that some of you who agree with this woman are probably standing at the ready with the following argument:
But if you're so angry with this woman, aren't you doing the same thing as you accuse her of doing? She has a right to her opinion too!
Well, she didn't offer it, at least not rationally! I mean, she could have told me why she thought Deborah was obviously guilty, and she could have countered my observations with meaningful rebuttals.
I realize that I want to believe that the little baby Lisa Irwin is still alive. I know that it's possible that we will hear that that baby will be found some other way, but there are tons of possibilities. The masses of human speculation might lead to the truth, if only we can accept variations of thought!
No, she couldn't bare to hear a differing opinion, so she threatened to leave the page after insulting me.
This banter happens with political discourse as well. If you are of one political persuasion or the other, you are inherently evil. Evil.